Back in 1975, psychologist Taibi Kahler identified five unconscious drivers that motivate our behaviors: Please Others, Be Strong, Hurry Up, Try Hard, and Be Perfect. These drivers, rooted in childhood messages, shape how we respond to challenges and can lead to both positive and destructive patterns. By understanding your dominant drivers, you can harness their strengths, address their limitations, and unlock greater personal growth, effectiveness, and healthier relationships.
Drivers are unconscious strategies we use to feel "OK" when challenged, but they can create barriers to communication, creativity, and wellbeing. By becoming aware of your drivers, you can choose more constructive responses and break free from limiting behaviors. For example, if you tend to Please Others, recognizing this pattern allows you to speak your truth more openly and authentically.
Start with awareness
What are your strongest drivers? Take this questionnaire to uncover your dominant drivers and begin your journey toward greater self-awareness and transformation. Understanding your drivers is a powerful step toward achieving personal and professional growth.